20 Books Like It Ends with Us by Colleen Hoover

New York Times bestselling author Colleen Hoover took over the literary world (and bookstore shelves) with her backlist titles. We both, somewhat reluctantly, read It Ends with Us by CoHo, as she is referred to by millions of fans.

While the book has phenomenal ratings, we went in concerned about a romance novel with themes of domestic abuse, afraid it wouldn’t be a great role model for young women. And while reading, we both wanted to throw the book across the room at points.

Yet, somehow, by the end of this emotional read, we understood the author’s intentions. Then, her author’s note solidified why this was a more important read than we initially thought. While the story includes a whirlwind romance, it isn’t and wasn’t intended to be a romance novel.

If you or a loved one are at risk, you can call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233), text START to 88788, or chat online with the National Domestic Violence hotline.

Books Similar to It Ends with Us

If you haven’t read IEWU yet, and you want to go in knowing as little as possible, then you might want to bookmark this list for later, as it includes some spoilers.

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Book Summary

Two years after Lily’s separation from Ryle, they have now developed a co-parenting rhythm. When she runs into Atlas, she’s thrilled that the timing may finally be right for them to have a relationship as adults.

However, Atlas isn’t sure he can handle the thought of Ryle being in Lily’s life in any capacity. In alternating points of view between Lily & Atlas, we’ll see if they’re able to develop a long-term relationship despite Ryle’s interference. We’ll also get a bit more insight into Atlas’ past. It’s an interesting look at the long-lasting impacts of abuse, even once you’ve escaped a situation.

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Some readers question the appropriate order in which to read this two-book series, but contrary to what the titles imply, It Ends with Us is the first book, and It Starts with Us is the follow-up of Lily’s life after the first book ends.

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Kailey is determined to understand how her former love, Cade, a Seattle music producer, has wound up homeless on the streets of Seattle and to help him get his life back on track.

Back in the ‘90s, Kailey and Cade fell in love, and she was convinced they’d spend their lives together. But when their romance ended suddenly, it took her years to get over him and find someone else. Then, one night, after enjoying a fancy dinner out with her fiance, Ryan, Kailey notices a homeless man outside the restaurant.

When she looks past his frail frame and bearded face, she is shocked to recognize that the homeless man is Cade. Kailey is determined to find out what happened to him and help, but the longer she keeps this secret from Ryan, the more complicated things become.

This story alternates between the 1990s and the 2010s.

The Book Girls Say…

When they meet as teenagers, Lily sees Atlas for who he really is and does not define him by his circumstances. Similarly, in Always, Kailey is determined to understand how her former love, Cade, has wound up homeless on the streets of Seattle and to help him get his life back on track.

We enjoy Sarah Jio’s writing because she does a good job of weaving romance threads into heavier topics. Her books are easy to read while giving you something to think about. Angela found this book compelling because it challenges your perceptions of how and why people end up on the streets.

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The book has alternating narration between two twin sisters, Fern and Rose. Fern thrives on routine and must avoid crowds and noise. She does all she can to avoid getting upset because that has led to tragedy in the past. 

Rose is her rock, so when Fern finds out Rose can’t have a baby, she decides to get pregnant and give Rose her baby to pay her back for always taking care of her. In her mind, this is a straightforward plan. But the plan ends up revealing layers of dark secrets along the way.

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If you enjoyed the suspense of wondering what decisions Lily would make, The Good Sister has a similar page-turning vibe.

Melissa listened to it on audio and enjoyed the narration. She also loved that it was very suspenseful without being scary.

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97% Would Recommend to a Friend

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When a Vietnam POW returns home, he carries new anger and impulsiveness. Determined to stand by her husband, his wife agrees with his plan to move his family to Alaska to live off the grid. Soon after arriving, the harsh reality of rural Alaska sets in for 13-year-old Leni and her mom.

For a while, things were better with her dad as they spent the fall season preparing for their first Alaskan winter. Unfortunately, she correctly feared his more balanced self was only temporary.

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Like Lily, the protagonist in The Great Alone grows up in an abusive home and has a hard time understanding her mother’s choice to stay, and like Lily, Leni finds herself drawn to a young man that her father doesn’t approve of.

WARNING: This book includes descriptions of domestic abuse.

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In this story of love and loss, Emma married her high school sweetheart, Jesse. The two are building a life of adventure together on the West Coast, far from the expectations of their families back east. But on their first wedding anniversary, Jesse’s helicopter crashes over the Pacific Ocean and he is assumed dead. 

Just like that, the book closes on the fairy tale life that Emma thought would be her happily ever after. She moves back home to Massachusettes to rebuild her life. Years later, now in her thirties, Emma finally found love again after reuniting with an old friend, Sam. But when Jesse is found alive after more than four years, Emma will be forced to choose between her husband and her fiance.

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In It Ends With Us, Atlas’ sudden reappearance threatens everything Lily has built with Ryle. This aspect of the story immediately reminded us of one of our favorite Taylor Jenkins Reid novels, One True Loves.

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Book Girls’ Readers Rate This Book

93% Would Recommend to a Friend

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Dill’s father is a Pentecostal minister who first drew attention for his extreme beliefs and then for a scandal. His friend Travis has his own demons in the form of an abusive father, so he escapes into a book series called Bloodfall. Dill has secret feelings for friend Lydia, a free-spirited and sarcastic fashion blogger who dreams of leaving rural Tennessee and heading to New York. 

Woven into this story of three unlikely friends trying to navigate the end of high school are stories of small-town life and themes of courage. But you’ll also need a box of tissues handy! 

The Book Girls Say…

While It Ends with Us follows Lily from her high school years into her 20s, The Serpent King is another look at teenage life with an abusive parent. In this case, you’ll meet three friends trying to survive being the outcasts in their tiny town.

Small Great Things

Book Girls’ Readers Rate This Book

99% Would Recommend to a Friend

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Ruth Jefferson is a 44-year-old labor and delivery nurse with twenty years of experience at a Connecticut hospital. After being reassigned away from a patient, she learns that the parents are white supremacists and don’t want Ruth, who is African American, to touch their child.

The hospital complies with their request, but the next day, the baby goes into cardiac distress while Ruth is alone in the nursery. Does she obey the orders of her superiors based on the parent’s mandate, or does she intervene?

This story is told from three alternating points of view: Ruth, the nurse; Kennedy, her middle-aged attorney; and Turk, the newborn’s white supremacist father.

The Book Girls Say…

The best way to describe It Ends With Us is that it’s a rollercoaster of emotions. There were times when we wanted to put the book down (or throw it at a wall) and just walk away, yet it just kept pulling us back in. 

Although the topic of Small Great Things has little in common with It Ends With Us, it immediately came to mind when we thought about other books that provide a similar emotional rollercoaster ride.

Like IEWU, this book is disturbing and painful to read at times, but it’s totally worth it.

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100% Would Recommend to a Friend

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Newlywed Ruth is a law school graduate and has an independent streak stronger than most young women in her posh neighborhood. However, she still wants to impress her mother-in-law, who has signed Ruth up for etiquette lessons with Lillian Diamond. 

Fellow etiquette-classmate Carrie is quiet, but has a dark secret. As witty Ruth befriends Carrie, they form an unbreakable bond. Ruth pushes Lillian and all of her Diamond Girls to question the status quo and stretch beyond their comfort zones as they unite to protect one of their own.

The Book Girls Say…

Ryle’s sister doesn’t get enough credit for helping Lily and choosing the right side over her own brother. Too often, friends and family of abusers (or even the victims) defend the abuser and make excuses.

Well Behaved Wives shows us that this has been happening for far too long.

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Macy and her dad spend their weekends at a house in the charming town of Healdsburg, where they can escape their daily lives in San Francisco. While the house starts as a place to process their grief, they gain even more than they expected. The large family across the street, starting with son Elliot, quickly becomes more than just casual neighbors.

Elliot and Macy soon bond over their love of books and their favorite words. Over time, their teenage friendship grows into romance.

The book is told in a split timeline. You watch their relationship develop as teens but also see Macy eleven years later working on her pediatrics residency in San Francisco. She’s engaged to someone else when she unexpectedly runs into Elliot at a coffee shop.

Upon seeing him, her long-repressed emotions come rushing back. Something happened in the past to tear them apart, but their chemistry is as strong as ever. For a shot at a future, they’ll be forced to come to terms with both the past and the present.

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If you loved the second chance romance aspect of IEWU, Love & Other Words uses the same trope, but with a different storyline.

We love everything written by the writing duo of Christina Lauren, and this ranks among our favorites. Love & Other Words leans more toward romantic drama than comedy and has a classic coming-of-age feel in the earlier timeline. You’ll want to keep the tissues handy when all is finally revealed – don’t say we didn’t warn you.

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Sixteen-year-old April has a rough life, fending for herself in a motorless motorhome that her father won while playing poker. She works at a diner but dreams of being a songwriter. After flunking out of school and another fight with her dad, April sets off to find a better life for herself.

Along the way, she meets others with complex stories, which are the perfect inspiration for her songs. But even more important than that, she finds that family doesn’t have to mean the community you were born into. Instead, people you meet can become family.

The Book Girls Say…

After a difficult upbringing, Lily proved herself to be very resilient and finds a way to follow her dream of becoming a florist while putting her own spin on it. Similarly, the protagonist in The People We Keep is determined to improve her life.

This is a beautifully written, character-driven, coming-of-age novel. April isn’t always likable, and she makes many bad decisions along the way. But she’s a raw and real character you’ll come to love despite her flaws. This book is packed with so much genuine emotion, honesty, and heart that you’ll want a copy on your shelf so that you can read it again!

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When Sadie doesn’t get the promotion she both needs and expects, she immediately adds three things to her to-do list – a drink, a one-night stand, and a new place to live. Unfortunately, she tackles these tasks in the wrong order. The drinks turn into Sadie mixing up a dating app and a roommate app. Whoops!

Jack has been dealing with his parents’ unexpected death by escaping into movies and video games alone. After hearing her story, he offers Sadie the spare bedroom in his gorgeous Brooklyn brownstone at an excellent price, even though he wasn’t looking for a roommate.

The cheap rent lets her grow her former side business as a florist into a full-time gig. But how long can these polar opposites happily coexist in one house?

The Book Girls Say…

Did you love Lily’s new flower business in It Ends with Us? We recommend this lighter novel in which the main character is also juggling a new flower shop and her personal life.

Even though this is a lighter pick for fans of the rom-com genre, it still addresses some deeper issues that make for good discussion. By the time these characters gather for Thanksgiving dinner, you’ll feel a strong connection to each of them.

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Charlotte feels adrift. She’s spent her twenties bouncing from job to job and guy to guy, just waiting for something to hold her interest. But all that changes when she meets a gorgeous painter named Adam. Like her, he seems to be lost. The two feel an instant attraction and spend one amazing night together – filled with champagne, Chinese food, and the best conversation. But there are also red flags. Adam gives Charlotte the cold shoulder when the morning rolls around, leaving her both hurt and confused.

When she’s still unable to get Adam off her mind months later, Charlotte is determined to find out why he pushed her away after their perfect night together. Will this decision rewrite their love story, or has the ending already been written?

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If Lily and Ryle’s story rocked you to your core and you’re looking for books to read after It Ends With Us that pack the same emotional punch, pick up Wish You Were Here by Renee Carlino (not to be confused with the Jodi Picoult novel by the same title). This story doesn’t get as dark as It Ends With Us, but you’ll find it equally hard to put down.

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Book Girls’ Readers Rate This Book

97% Would Recommend to a Friend

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This novel tells the intertwined tale of three moms whose children attend the same primary school in suburban Sydney.

Forty-year-old Madeline is funny, biting, and passionate; she remembers everything and forgives no one. Celeste is beautiful, but the illusion of perfection comes at a price. Single mom Jane is new to town and has a mysterious past. She’s so young that other moms mistake her for a nanny.

The three women at the heart of this story are very different, but a schoolyard scandal threatens to expose each of their lies.

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If Lily had made a different choice, she could have ended up just like one of the characters in Big Little Lies.

After reading, be sure to watch the TV series adaptation starring Nicole Kidman, Reese Witherspoon, Shailene Woodley, Laura Dern, and Zoë Kravitz! But keep in mind that the series is set in California rather than Australia.

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From the outside, it appears that Alice has a perfect marriage. But the reality is very different. She has, in fact, been unhappily married for 50 years. Her husband, Ken, becomes violent when he’s angry. Alice always put up with it because she thought she was putting the needs of her kids ahead of her own.

But now their two sons are grown up. One son, Tim, is a successful banker living nearby with his wife and children. The other son, Matt, bounced around from job to job and is now traveling abroad. Alice can’t keep track of what continent he’s on. At 69 years old, Alice is finally beginning to wonder if she made the right decision for all these years, and what would happen if she finally decided to put her needs first.

The character-driven story is told in three parts: first showing us what Alice’s marriage looked like over the past 50 years; then from Tim’s perspective as he and his wife chase their dreams; and then we meet Matt, “the other son,” whose story helps to put all the pieces together. This book deals with challenging issues, but the author does not rely on graphic descriptions of violence, and there are also humorous moments.

The Book Girls Say…

If you’re wondering what to read after It Ends With Us, how about a book that takes a close look at how Lily’s story might have turned out if she had made a different decision?

Nick Alexander also wrote another novel that explores abusive relationships – You Then, Me Now. In this book, Becky is searching for answers about the father she never knew. Her mom, Laura, has never been willing to talk about him. When Laura books a trip to Santorini, Greece, Becky decides to join her. But what Becky thought was an impulsive vacation reveals itself to be more than that. She soon realizes that her mom has a history with the island. You Then, Me Now is written from both mother and daughter’s points of view – with Becky’s chapters set in present-day, and Laura’s chapters transporting us back to her early 20s.

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Book Summary

In this emotional rollercoaster, Dannie Kohan is a rising Manhattan attorney who just nailed an important job interview and then got engaged. She’s had one heck of a great day and goes to bed confident that she’s on track to achieve her five-year plan.

When she wakes up, she finds herself in a different apartment, with a different ring on her finger and next to a different man. It’s still December 15th – but it’s now 2025, five years later. One intense and shocking hour later, Dannie wakes up again back in 2020.

Was it all a very realistic dream? She decides it must have been and tries to forget all about it. But the memory is suddenly brought back to the surface when, four and a half years later, Dannie meets the man from her dream.

The Book Girls Say…

Like many readers, we went into It Ends With Us expecting one thing and found something very different. In Five Years is another great read that is not the love story you might expect it to be. If you’re looking for a light and happy read, save this one for later. But if you’re ready for another emotional rollercoaster, then buckle your seatbelt.

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In Cedar Falls, Iowa there are two women, each named Janine Brown, who desperately need their own fresh starts. One is heartbroken from a loss, and the other has an abusive boyfriend she is desperate to escape. 

When a home and garden TV network announces that Janine Brown from Cedar Falls, Iowa has won a dream home in Maine, they both assume they are the winner. When each Janine (nicknamed Janey & Nean) arrives in Maine, they discover the mix-up, but neither is ready to return to their prior reality. 

While both of their stories are compelling and will stir your emotions, wise and witty Aunt Midge provides a lighter break to keep things from being too heavy. She’ll keep you laughing while the younger Janines sort through past hurts and try to find the best way forward in life.

The Book Girls Say…

What if Lily hadn’t had the resources to live on her own? 

The Good Luck Girls of Shipwreck Lane gives a glimpse into the desperation and reliance on hope that so many women experience when they don’t have a clear escape path.

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Books Like Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine

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Book Summary

What if Lily had to leave Boston and start life over in a new town? 

In the novel Safe Haven, Katie arrives in a North Carolina town with a lot of secrets. Although she tries to keep to herself, widowed dad Alex begins capturing her heart. 

As Katie becomes attached to Alex and his children, she wants to put down roots but remains terrified of her past’s secrets. A new friend, Jo, lends consistent support as Katie tries to choose between remaining on the run and opening her heart to real love. 

As with most Nicholas Sparks books, you’ll experience an array of emotions while reading. Reviewers enjoyed Safe Haven because it adds suspense to his standard romance themes.

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Book Girls’ Readers Rate This Book

93% Would Recommend to a Friend

Book Summary

When night-shift worker Leon needs some extra cash to help a family member, he decides to get a roommate.

The problem is that he has a one-bedroom apartment with one bed. So, he places an ad for someone to sleep in his bed while he’s at work. They’ll never be home at the same time, but it’s still a crazy plan.

Thankfully, it’s just the solution newly single Tiffy needs.

Several of their post-it note conversations back and forth made us laugh out loud. There’s also a mix of humor and more serious topics if you’re looking for a rom-com with substance.

The Book Girls Say…

On the surface, this is a lighter rom-com, but it deals with some serious issues, including the main character, Tif, trying to rebuild her life after leaving an emotionally abusive relationship. The Flatshare will make you laugh out loud as Leon and Sophie exchange notes and learn to co-habitat on opposite schedules.

You can also now watch the streaming series adaptation of The Flatshare.

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Samantha is a school librarian who loves her current job and has a bold zest for life…but she hasn’t always been that way. Duncan, the new school principal, is very regimented and unwilling to stray from the rules…but he hasn’t always been that way.

Sam and Duncan have met before. They worked together at another school years ago, back when they were both very different people. When Duncan takes over as the new principal at Sam’s school, she’s shocked to discover that the fun-loving guy she remembers has turned into a completely different person – one she’s afraid will ruin everything she loves about her loving and welcoming school community.

As things spiral out of control, Sam and Duncan are forced to get real with one another and reveal their past traumas to save the school and themselves.

The Book Girls Say…

Like It Ends With Us, the first few chapters of What You Wish For may have you convinced that you’ve picked up just another romance, but as the story unfolds you’ll find so much more.

Katherine Center’s writing captures the bittersweet nature of real life. The two main characters are each struggling with traumatic pasts. You’ll alternate between laughing out loud and reaching for the tissues, but this story is ultimately uplifting.

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Book Girls’ Readers Rate This Book

98% Would Recommend to a Friend

Book Summary

Born a Crime is the true story of Daily Show host Trevor Noah’s childhood and into his early adulthood. His rise to success was unlikely based on his beginning. Trevor was born in South Africa in 1984 to a white father and black mother. His parents could have been imprisoned for five years – or worse – for conceiving him. He spent his early years largely hidden from life outside because his mother feared (with good reason) that he could be removed from her custody because of the apartheid rules of segregation.

In true Trevor Noah fashion, you’ll be entertained while also receiving an education on life in apartheid South Africa. He manages to explain the extremely complex system of apartheid in accessible terms by drawing on examples and comparisons.

When the era of white rule officially ended in the early 1990s, it was far from the end of the family’s troubles. From attempted kidnappings and domestic violence to high school dating drama, you’ll find a mixture of relatable and shocking stories that keep you engaged with every page.

The Book Girls Say…

We found Colleen Hoover’s author’s note at the end of IEWU very powerful, and it helped us to better appreciate her motivation for writing the novel. It’s hard for many people (no less a child) to understand why any woman would stay in an abusive relationship. While the other books on this list are all fiction, we feel like Trevor Noah’s memoir, Born a Crime, also adds a valuable perspective to this conversation. 

We highly recommend listening to the audiobook, which Trevor narrates himself. Trevor speaks eight languages and draws upon each of them throughout the book to explain how languages can divide people, but can also be used to build bridges. We found it much more impactful to hear him speak each language with the correct sounds and pronunciations rather than attempting our own phonetic reading.

NOTE: Angela and her husband listened to the audiobook on a road trip with their then 8 and 9-year-old sons. The boys were both fascinated by the stories and learned a lot, but mom and dad did have to sensor crude language and a few other parts here and there (including a Santa spoiler). There is a young reader version available (It’s Trevor Noah) that is appropriate for kids to read on their own, or if you prefer only clean language.

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Book Summary

When Tate Collins meets airline pilot Miles Archer, it’s definitely not love at first sight. There is a mutual attraction – but that’s the only thing Tate and Miles have in common. He makes it clear from the outset that he has no interest in finding love, and that’s fine by Tate because she doesn’t have time for love. That just leaves sex – and we’ll warn you right now that if you’d prefer not to read all the steamy details, this is not the book for you!

The arrangement that Tate and Miles come up with seems simple enough –  they’ll enjoy their time together, but they both agree never to ask about the past and that they won’t expect a future. Of course, it’s never that simple. Promises and rules get broken, hearts get involved, and love gets ugly.

The Book Girls Say…

Most fans of Colleen Hoover will tell you that It Ends With Us is very different from any of her other books, though they are all very highly rated. If It Ends With Us was your first time reading Hoover’s work and you’re wondering which of her novels to pick up next, we’d recommend Ugly Love.

It Ends With Us Movie

While we had heard mixed things about the movie version of It Ends with Us, Melissa saw it and felt that it followed the book fairly well. She did not feel like it romanticized abuse, which was our concern from some of the headlines.

Instead, it shows some realities of abuse outside of stereotypes – your abuser can be in a well-regarded career, your abuser can be nice to you 99% of the time, and it can happen within relationships based on deep love. It’s easy to give advice to walk away, but the book and movie show the gray lines and gaslighting that may make you question what you experienced.

We recommend skipping the press about the film and judging it for yourself. That said, we don’t want to downplay the importance of the final message – it’s vital to stop the cycle of abuse. We do wish that was the leading headline in all the movie’s press.

If you or a loved one are at risk, you can call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233), text START to 88788, or even chat online with the National Domestic Violence hotline.

It Ends With Us Summary

The book follows two major periods in the life of Lily Bloom. First, as a teenager, when she notices one of her classmates, Atlas, sleeping in the unoccupied house behind hers. When she begins sneaking him food, they develop a friendship that leads quickly to deep first love. Lily’s life at home isn’t perfect, but everything feels right with Atlas. When they are separated, they vow to find each other again as adults.

Years later, on the day of Lily’s father’s funeral, she has a chance encounter with a gorgeous neurosurgeon, Ryle Kincaid. Despite Ryle’s complete aversion to relationships, he has a total soft spot for Lily. From the first time he sees her, he can’t get her out of his mind. Lily is busy trying to set up her own business, but when they run into each other again, she’s also intrigued.

We want you to enjoy the twist and turns of Colleen Hoover’s book on your own, so we won’t share any more of the plot. Just know that this captivating romance is also a heartbreaking novel that tackles important issues.

Be sure to read the author’s note at the end of the book. It explains the author’s relationship to the difficult subject matter. After reading, you’ll know how she was able to write something with such an emotional punch.

One other important note is that we feel the writing style shines in audio form. While reading part of the book on Kindle, Melissa felt that while the story was page-turning, the writing wasn’t as strong. However, when she switched to listening, all the weaker parts suddenly worked perfectly and felt authentic. This is especially true with longer sections of dialogue. Angela listened to the audiobook from start to finish and was hooked throughout. So, if you enjoy audiobooks, we highly recommend that format.

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