19 Books About Friendship for Adults
If you’re not familiar with our story, we started the Book Girls’ Guide as two best friends, living in different states, with a shared love of books. So, it only made sense for us to curate a list of the best novels about friendship!

Themes in Friendship Books
We hope this list of books about female friendship (plus a couple of can’t-miss male picks) will bring back many good memories of someone who has been a brilliant friend to you! We’ve selected friendship books that cover a variety of genres, time periods, and life experiences.
If you’re interested in reading books about best friends during a certain season of life, we’ve curated book recommendations for each decade of life as part of our Lifetime of Reading Challenge (characters in their 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, etc.).
Best Friendship Novels for Adults
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Kate & Frida
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In 1991, twenty-something Frida arrives in Paris eager to begin a career as a war journalist covering the war in Bosnia. She sends an inquiry to a bookstore in Seattle, but what she receives back is more than just the book she requested.
What begins as correspondence between Frida and a young Seattle bookseller named Kate soon blossoms into an important friendship for both women throughout a very transformative period in each of their lives.
The Book Girls Say…
Kate & Frida is especially recommended for fans of books like The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Society and 84 Charing Cross Road, which are both also excellent books about friendships.
Readers of Kim Fay’s Love & Saffron may recall that Frida is Joan’s daughter from L&S, but these two novels read well as standalones.
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Moment in Time
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Eight years ago, a tragic accident changed Mo and Chloe’s lives forever. Now, the friends are in their mid-twenties. Together with their third roommate, Hazel, they share an apartment in San Francisco and are navigating the daily challenges of early adulthood.
When Hazel disappears after being sexually assaulted, Mo and Chloe’s lives are ripped apart. The two are no strangers to tragedy, but the search for Hazel will test their friendship in ways they never imagined.
The Book Girls Say…
While many of the books on this list are feel-good friendship reads, this novel is a heartrending story about the power of friendship during life’s most difficult moments.
Suzanne Redfearn is also the author of Hadley & Grace, about two women who set out on a road trip adventure with has major Thelma and Louise vibes.
My Friends
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When looking at one of the most famous paintings in the world, it’s easy to miss the three tiny figures in the corner at the far end of the pier. You might even think they’re just part of the sea. But 18-year-old Louisa, an artist herself, noticed them. The painting has unexpectedly been bequeathed to her, and she’s determined to find out the story behind the enigmatic figures.
Twenty-five years ago, a group of teenage friends spent their days hanging out and laughing out on the pier to escape their complicated lives at home. Joar never backs down from a fight. Bookish Ted is mourning his father. Ali’s dad never stays in place for long. And then there is the boy who hoards sleeping pills and doesn’t want too much attention, but who has an extraordinary talent for art.
Louisa sets out on a cross-country journey to learn more about the work of art. The closer she gets to the painting’s birthplace, the more she feels compelled to unleash her own artistic spirit.
The Book Girls Say…
We will read anything Fredrik Backman writes, and we enthusiastically encourage everyone else to do the same! We can’t wait to get our hands on this 2025 release.
If you are new to Backman’s writing, it may, at first, seem stream of consciousness, and you may even feel like you don’t understand what it’s about or where it’s going… but just keep reading and trust the journey. You’ll soon discover his immense talent for crafting characters and stories that will stick with long after you’ve read the final page.
Finding Margaret Fuller
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This historical fiction novel is based on the real life of Margaret Fuller, an extremely intelligent, well-read, hard-working writer. She was one of the first feminist icons in the United States.
As a young women, she is invited to the home of Ralph Waldo Emerson to meet his coterie of enlightened friends who are shaping a nation. These connections fuel her passion for education and inspire her to host the first women-only literary salon for students like Elizabeth Cady Stanton.
She never takes no for an answer, and her days include everything from sparring with Edgar Allan Poe to reporting on the writings of Frederick Douglass. Her work earns her a job for Horace Greeley, where she makes history yet again by being the first female foreign news correspondent.
The Book Girls Say…
While this wasn’t a fast-paced read, Melissa really enjoyed learning about Margaret Fuller, the other American Transcendentalist authors, and so much more during this period she was previously not interested in. It’s a book so rich in history that it causes you to put it down temporarily so you can read a bit more about different events and people that intrigue you.
Much of Margaret’s opportunities and experiences were driven by her friendships and the friends of her friends. It’s an interesting look at different relationships and how so many of the lasting names in literature came from one friend group.
For the Love of Friends
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Lily is a great writer, has a reliable job, and has great friends. But she’s also 32 and single… which is all her mom can seem to focus on. It’s especially hard to ignore her relationship status when everyone else around her is getting married – she’s a bridesmaid in five weddings in six weeks.
She’ll go to any length for the love of her friends, but she also needs a place to vent. Which is why she starts an anonymous blog called Bridesmania where she dishes on mom-zillas, wicked bridesmaids, body-shaming dress clerks, and even her 88-year-old Granny (who she’s recently been deemed the guardian of) who prefers to enjoy her morning mimosas in the nude. Of course, we all know that secrets are hard to keep on the internet…
The Book Girls Say…
If you’re looking for an entertaining but light read, this is a great choice! It’s also a good look at different types of friendship and what it means to be a good friend as Lily navigates trying to do her best, while simultaneously causing harm.
The Lion Women of Tehran
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In 1950s Tehran, Ellie lives a priviledged life. However, her whole world changes when her father unexpectedly passes away, and she and her mother must move to a tiny home downtown.
On her first day at her new school, Ellie meets Homa, a kind, brave, and passionate girl who becomes her best friend. They spend all their time together learning to cook, playing games, and wandering the Grand Bazaar.
But then Ellie’s life flips again when she’s given a chance to return to her privileged life and attend the best girls’ high school in Iran. Over time, her thoughts of Homa fade, and she embraces her bourgeois life. When Homa suddenly reappears, the course of both of their lives is changed forever. The rising political turmoil in the country complicates things even further.
The Book Girls Say…
This highly-rated novel starts with a focus on the girl’s friendship as they come of age in the 1950s & 1960s Iran, but then follows the women through the present day. Their relationship is not all smooth, but it’s strong.
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The Ladies’ Midnight Swimming Club
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Set in a small Irish village, this is the story of three women from different backgrounds, each in a different stage of life. Together, they find that there’s no better way to distract from their worries than a midnight dip in the cold waters of the Atlantic. As they swim, they form a close bond and provide support to one another.
The Book Girls Say…
This friendship book is told in five monthly parts, spanning April to August, each from a different point of view. This allows you to get know the characters on a more intimate level. Although it touches on many emotional issues (you may need to keep tissues nearby), the overall vibe of the book is described as heartwarming and uplifting.
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It’s Not All Downhill from Here
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Loretha is about to turn 68-years-old, and she has no intention of slowing down. She heads a booming beauty empire and has a wonderful group of lifelong friends and a husband she loves. She’s determined to prove to her family – including her mother and twin sister – that her best days are not behind her because she’s getting older.
But when an expected loss rocks her world, Loretha must dig deep to keep thriving and pursuing joy. With help from her friends, it will take every bit of her strength and resourcefulness to create a new path for herself.
The Book Girls Say…
Terry McMillian is the author of the New York Times bestselling novels Waiting to Exhale and How Stella Got Her Groove Back.
The Secret Life of Albert Entwistle
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Albert Entwistle is a 64-year postal worker in the UK. He has no plans of retiring but receives a letter informing him that his mandatory retirement is just around the corner on his 65th birthday.
Albert’s only friend is his cat, and although he isn’t chatty with others at work or on his routes, he still dreads being home alone without a job. When he’s reminded of his only romantic relationship, which happened 50 years prior, something begins to stir in Albert. Perhaps it’s not too late to find happiness after all?
With the help of some unexpected new friends, Albert sets off to find George, the man he hasn’t seen since they were teenagers.
The Book Girls Say…
While most of the titles on this list are books about female friendship, Albert is one of our all-time favorite male protagonists. This novel emphasizes the value of community, the power of friends who accept you for who you are, and that it’s never too late for a second chance. If you’re looking for a feel-good friendship book that will make you shed a few happy tears, this is it!
We highly recommend the audio version of this book, even if you usually prefer print/ebook. The narrator perfectly captures Albert’s emotions through each phase of his journey.
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The Five-Star Weekend
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This novel centers around Hollis, a popular food blogger who loses her husband to a car accident. The fight she had with him right before he drove away drives an even deeper wedge between her and her teenage daughter, Caroline.
After learning about a trend called a “Five-Star Weekend,” where one woman organizes a trip for her best friends from each phase of life, Hollis decides to host her own. But gathering her best friend from each decade from childhood through midlife doesn’t turn out to be the joyful Hallmark movie she’d envisioned. But it will definitely be a weekend she’ll never forget.
The Book Girls Say…
Melissa loved this summer novel and agrees that it lives up to its 5-star namesake. While Elin delivers a page-turning beach read, she also provides plenty to think about in your own life. It’s the perfect mix of light reading with some deeper themes of friendship and relationships included to stop it from being too fluffy.
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The Help
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Skeeter has returned home from college to her family’s cotton plantation where – despite trying to act like a proper Southern lady – she seems to constantly disappoint her mother.
Her true ambition, however, is to be a writer. The only job she’s able to find is one she is completely unqualified for – writing a housekeeping advice column for the local paper. Having virtually no experience of her own with housekeeping, Skeeter turns to her friend’s maid, the very poised Aibileen, for help.
As she gets to know Aibileen and Aibileen’s friend, the very sassy Minny, more intimately, Skeeter is inspired to help tell their stories, and she pitches the idea to write the narratives of 12 Black maids – a very risky project for all of them. It’s an unlikely friendship, but this group shows that true friendship comes in many forms.
The Book Girls Say…
This is one of Angela’s favorite books. It’s full of characters that are easy to love (and others not so much), and by the end, you’ll be so invested in their stories that you won’t want the book to end!
The good news is that, when you do reach the final page, you can watch the movie to enjoy these women all over again.
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Very Very Lucky
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Forty-something Emma realizes that her life might have gotten a bit too hectic and tiring when she wakes up after falling asleep in an IKEA showroom. Between trying to be a good mother to her kids, a good daughter to her ailing mother, and a good wife, she’s struggling to keep up. Thank goodness for her best friend, Roz, who keeps her sane. But when Roz climbs through her bathroom window one day with terrible news to share, Emma loses all confidence in her ability to keep it together.
Thurston’s once-full life is empty these days. He’s recently widowed, and without his wife of sixty-two years, he no longer finds joy or purpose in his life. When driving his niece to work one day, Thurston has a chance encounter with Emma and quickly gets drawn into the whirlwind of her chaotic life.
Thurston has a calming presence that helps Emma put her problems in perspective, and soon, the two form an unlikely friendship.
The Book Girls Say…
This novel offers a mix of laugh-out-loud moments and heavier topics. Be aware that this book addresses issues such as grief, thoughts of suicide, and terminal illnesses.
This book is full of great examples of friendships, both new and long-standing.
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The Beantown Girls
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Fiona had plans to marry her fiance when he returned from WWII and settle down in the Boston suburbs. But when he is reported missing after being shot down in Germany, her plans are shattered.
Determined to learn his fate, Fiona volunteers as a Red Cross Clubmobile Girl in Europe and convinces her two best friends to join her. The trio isn’t prepared for the challenges of war, but their courage and friendship will carry them through. However, reviewers warn to keep the tissues close by!
The Book Girls Say…
The friends in The Beantown Girls are entrenched closer to the action than most women in World War II. You’ll fall in love with this trio of friends and many of the soldiers they encounter.
The novel is based on the real-life Red Cross Clubmobile girls, who delivered donuts, coffee, and often mail to the troops near the front lines. You can see a few photos of the real-life Clubmobile girls and read more about them online here.
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Firefly Lane
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From 8th grade, Kate and Tully cycle through the highs and lows of long-term friendships as they try to figure out what they want from the world and what they need from each other.
Tully seems to have both beauty and brains, while Kate feels doomed to be uncool forever. However, Tully doesn’t have it all. She longs to fill the void left when her mom abandoned her, and she funnels all her feelings into ambition at work. Kate is equally driven, but her life looks different as she becomes a wife and mother.
In Firefly Lane, Kristin Hannah uses the descriptive talent you know from her historical fiction books to share the story of three decades between friends.
The Book Girls Say…
For another, very different look at extremely strong female friendships, don’t miss The Women, also by Kristin Hannah.
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Echoes of Us
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Sisters Hadley and Kitzie have been hired to plan a reunion on St. Simon’s Island for the descendants of three men who became unlikely friends during WW2.
Before the war, Will was a farmboy from Tennessee, and Dov was a Jewish student at Cambridge. During the war, they meet Hans, a German POW. The trio not only became close friends, they founded a business together after the war.
But 80 years after they met, their descendants are now fighting over control of the corporation. As Hadley and Kitzie investigate the men’s backgrounds to better understand the reunion, they uncover the life of the courageous young woman who links them all together.
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The Wedding People
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For years, Phoebe has dreamed of visiting the iconic Cornwall Inn in Newport, Rhode Island. She looked forward to shucking oysters and sailing into the sunset with her husband. But instead, she arrives alone and plans to stay in the most expensive room for one night.
As it turns out, Phoebe is the only guest at the Inn who is not a part of a big wedding party. The bride, Lila, thought she had accounted for every possibility in her effort to host the perfect wedding, but she couldn’t have predicted Phoebe’s arrival.
Phoebe and Lila are complete opposites, but sometimes chance meetings turn into the most unexpected friendships.
The Book Girls Say…
While this synopsis sounds light and the book is humorous at times, there are also plenty of deep topics. Be sure to check trigger warnings before reading if needed.
Reviewers note that the audiobook is especially well done.
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The Last Bathing Beauty
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Betty Stern turned 18 in 1951 and was looking forward to her last summer at her grandparent’s Jewish summer resort before heading off to college. She had big dreams of becoming a fashion editor in NYC.
During that life-changing summer, Betty collapses at the end of the beauty pageant, which ends up being the last time the pageant is held. In 2020, a financially-struggling manicurist decides to bring it back. By this time, Betty is in her late 80s, and no one knows she was the last winner or why the pageant ended.
The Book Girls Say…
The book alternates between Betty’s life that summer and a present-day gathering of her best friends from that summer. It’s a great look at societal expectations between the two time periods and at friendships that have endured for over half a century.
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The Seven Day Switch
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Neighbors Celeste and Wendy are both moms. As far as they can tell, that’s the only thing they have in common – other than their mutual disdain for each other!
Celeste is a stay-at-home mom who spends her days volunteering and creating a Pinterest-worthy life that makes other moms despise her. Wendy is a career-driven working mom who lives by her minute-to-minute schedule as she balances her business and keeps things afloat at home.
After a bit too much sangria at a softball potluck, Celeste and Wendy wake up in each other’s bodies – Freaky Friday style. Soon everything they thought they knew about the other is turned upside down. Their messy lives are about to get a whole lot more complicated, but along the way, they’ll discover they might not be so different after all.
The Book Girls Say…
This book is a heartwarming reminder – presented in a laugh-out-loud funny package – that we shouldn’t be so quick to judge one another and that parenting and adulting are easier when we have each other’s backs!
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The Sunshine Girls
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This dual-timeline novel opens in 2019 at the funeral for BettyKay in a small town in Iowa. BettyKay’s daughters are shocked when Hollywood movie star Kitty Devereaux walks in and places something into their mother’s casket. Over the course of the weekend, BettyKay’s daughters discover a whole other side to their mother as Kitty shares stories of their lifelong friendship, which all began in 1967 at a St. Luke’s Nursing School in the fictional town of Greensboro, Iowa.
BettyKay grew up on a farm in the Midwest and risked everything to attend nursing school against her parents’ wishes. Her assigned roommate, Kitty, came to Iowa to escape her past in Atlanta but already had her sights set on Hollywood. The two, having little in common, became unlikely friends. Another new student, Jenny, completed their trio. Jenny had aspirations of becoming a doctor, but she knew that the combination of being a woman and being Black meant that the odds were stacked against her in the late 60s.
The bond these three women formed at their Iowa nursing school would carry them through the years as their lives led them in different directions – from the jungles of Vietnam to the movie sets of Hollywood.
The Book Girls Say…
Author Molly Fader chose to set The Sunshine Girls in Iowa because her mother attended nursing school in Iowa in the late 1960s. She explains that many of her mother’s stories are in the book, including details about nursing school life and working in hospitals in Iowa during that time.
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The Book Girls Friendship Story
Our own friendship started in 2014 at a conference for home decor bloggers (Angela also owns BlueiStyle.com and Melissa owns PolishedHabitat.com). Soon, we learned we’d both be at another conference later that year and agreed to be roommates. Before leaving the second trip, we had already schemed up a trip to New York City with our spouses. Over the past decade, we’ve spent time in more than 10 different cities for both work and fun.
We’ve had some unforgettable experiences along the way. From seeing the original cast of Hamilton on Broadway to being named “Stylemakers” by Better Homes & Gardens magazine the same year, and from accidentally chatting with one of The Temptations in Beverly Hills to being photographed with Kelly Osborne and making it into her Instagram feed, it’s been a crazy eleven years.

So, it’s only appropriate that Book Girls’ Guide started on one of these trips! In the fall of 2019, Angela flew from her home in Denver to Melissa’s house in Tulsa. Then, we started a road trip to a conference in Austin. Along the way, we stopped at Magnolia Market in Waco.
While waiting on the patio for lunch, the idea of a shared book recommendation site was born. In the next few hours, as we continued our drive to Austin, we never stopped brainstorming. By the time we reached our hotel, we had picked the name, purchased the domain, and set up social media accounts!
By the next morning, we had a logo, the shell of a website, and a list of over 100 post ideas. It was fast and fabulous!
We hoped people would enjoy the site and that it would be fun project for us to tackle together. But, we underestimated how well you would respond to the Reading Challenges and the Read with the Book Girls Facebook group. Our kind readers make all the long hours so worth it. Plus, our friendship is better than ever!
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