Books About Friendship for Adults

by Maeve Binchy

Life-long friends Benny and Eve grew up in the village of Knockglen, Ireland. Together they head to university in Dublin where their circle of friends expands to include beautiful Nan and handsome Jack. But heartbreak and betrayal result when their worlds of Knockglen and Dublin collide, and long-hidden lies emerge that will test the bonds of their friendship.

Angela read this book in high school and it still stands out in her mind as one of her all-time favorites! It's a simple story of friendship that is heart-warming and beautifully told from the first page to the last. Her most vivid memory of this book is the warm feeling it left her with.

by Deb Spera

Set in 1924 South Carolina, Call Your Daughter Home follows three women who seem to have nothing in common. The unlikely trio consists of a slave, the matriarch of an influential family, and a mother of four who join together to address injustices in their small town.

It's a story of motherhood, womanhood, and the undeniable force of women when they unite.

by Robert Dugoni

Born with ocular albinism, Sam Hill's red eyes cause him problems from the moment that he enrolled at Our Lady of Mercy. Labeled "Hell Boy," he is bullied by not only his classmates, but also by the nun who is principal at the elementary school. Eventually, Sam finds the friend he desperately needs in Ernie Cantwell, the only African American boy in his class, and years later in a fiercely individual girl named Mickie.

Years later, Sam is a respected ophthalmologist still moving through life with Ernie and Mickie by his side, but his world is about to be upturned when he's unexpectedly reunited with the biggest school-yard bully from his past.

It all starts with a pair of jeans purchased at a thrift shop. Four friends gather the night before they each go their separate ways for the summer of their 15th year, and they each decide to try on the jeans to see who they fit best. Somehow the jeans fit everyone perfectly, so the friends decide to form the Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants. Throughout the summer, the pants see all and keep the friends connected as they each experience the most memorable summer of their lives.

Neither of us read this book when it was first popular, but we were of the mistaken impression that this was a fluffy YA book. We were surprised to read review after review that describes this book as "deeper than you expect" and "all the feels."

by Kathryn Stockett

Skeeter has returned home from college to her family’s cotton plantation where - despite trying to act like a proper Southern lady - she seems to constantly disappoint her mother. Her true ambition, however, is to be a writer. The only job she’s able to find is one she completely unqualified for - writing a housekeeping advice column for the local paper. Having virtually no experience of her own with housekeeping, Skeeter turns her friend’s maid, the very poised Aibileen, for help.

As she gets to know Aibileen and Aibileen's friend, the very sassy Minny, more intimately, Skeeter is inspired to help tell their stories, and she pitches the idea to write the narratives of 12 Black maids – a very risky project for all of them.

by Taylor Jenkins Reid

In concurrent storylines, 29-year-old Hannah lives out the effects two different decisions. Should she leave a party with her best friend, or with the high school boyfriend she just ran into again? Will either decision help her feel content after a decade of moving from city to city for meaningless jobs?

in both timelines, the one thing that remains consistent is the strength of the friendship between the two women as they help each other through life’s challenges

by Jane Healey

The friends in The Beantown Girls are entrenched closer to the action than most women in World War II. This historical fiction novel is based on the real Red Cross Clubmobile girls, who delivered donuts, coffee, and often mail to the troops near the front lines.

Fiona had plans to marry her fiance when he returned from WWII and settle down in the Boston suburbs. But when he is reported missing after being shot down in Germany, her plans are shattered. Determined to learn his fate, Fiona volunteers as a Red Cross Clubmobile girl, and convinces her two best friends to join her.

The book follows the trio from training throughout their service in the war. You'll fall in love with them and the soldiers they encounter.

by Jane L. Rosen

Eliza is a suburban wife secreting struggling with a new, intense fear of leaving her house. She forces herself to go to the store in preparation for a visit from her college-age children. While she is there, she hears younger moms talking about a new local online forum for women. Eliza has run a similar group for years, but these strangers are calling her group boring.

In a moment of desperation and weakness, Eliza starts a rumor on her board to liven it up, and the rumor reaches further than she expected.

While Eliza is the title character in the book, this is story of four women coming together to help each other through a variety of problems

by Elizabeth Wetmore

Melissa was concerned going into this book based on other reviews stating there were too many disconnected characters. She didn't find that at all and thought the author made all the proper connections between them. However, it is a book you have to be paying full attention to in order to catch everything.

That said, she really enjoyed each woman's story and loved how they intertwined as friendships developed. While some thought it was depressing, Melissa found it to be a story of survival in terrible circumstances and how we often have to rely on each other. Each character was saved by others in different ways. It's a heavy read, but worth it.

By Aminatou Sow & Ann Friedman

While the rest of the books on this list are novels, Big Friendship is a joint memoir about the friendship between the co-authors. They share both the positive stories and the messy moments from their lives and explore how each impacted their friendship with each other.

Throughout the book, they talk to other friends and experts in an effort to understand what makes friendships successful. It's a great reminder that we have to actively choose friendships and not take them for granted.