21 Must-Read Found Family Books
Over the years, we’ve been drawn to books featuring found family, and we’ve heard the same from many of you. These heartwarming stories highlight the beauty of relationships built on trust and mutual support. Dive into our list of must-read found family books and discover the magic of chosen families!
The Best Found Family Books
How to Age Disgracefully
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When Lydia takes a part-time job running the local senior center three afternoon a week, she has no idea what she’s getting herself into. In addition to a more rambunctious group of seniors than she expected, the council is trying to sell the building that houses both the senior center and a day care center.
Daphne has been reclusive for decades, hiding from a mysterious past that may still be trying to catch up to her. But, her 70th birthday prompts reflection on her life and she decides that MAYBE it wouldn’t be terrible to find a friend…or even a boyfriend.
What she finds at the senior center is not what she expects. Despite her initial reservations, an unlikely chain of new relationships including a teenage father, a dog, and some grumpy old men change her life in every way.
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Melissa rated this enjoyable story five stars. She loves a strong older character and when lonely people of different generations connect to form a new family and this novel did that well. It’s both heart-warming and funny, which is the best combination!
The Secret Life of Albert Entwistle
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Albert Entwistle is a 64-year postal worker in the UK. He has no plans of retiring but receives a letter informing him that his mandatory retirement is just around the corner on his 65th birthday.
Albert’s only friend is his cat, and although he isn’t chatty with others at work or on his routes, he still dreads being home alone without a job. When he’s reminded of his only romantic relationship, which happened 50 years prior, something begins to stir in Albert. Perhaps it’s not too late to find happiness after all?
With the help of some unexpected new friends, Albert sets off to find George, the man he hasn’t seen since they were teenagers.
The Book Girls Say…
The Secret Life of Albert Entwistle is a feel-good, heartwarming read that will pull at your heartstrings while providing plenty of topics for discussion. If you enjoy audiobooks, the narrator perfectly captures Albert’s conflicted feelings as he begins to open up to new friends.
Although the storyline includes searching for a lost love, the book is not a romance – it’s really a 65-year-old coming-of-age tale.
This book was published in the UK in 2021, prior to the 2022 US release.
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The Collected Regrets of Clover
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Clover had an unusual childhood, with her Kindergarten teacher passing away during a reading of Peter Rabbit. Then, her parents passed away while traveling, and she started a new life with her grandfather in New York City. She continued to be fascinated by death and was studying different cultural traditions abroad when she received the terrible news that her grandfather had passed away alone in his office.
Clover commits to preventing others from dying alone by becoming a death doula. She only takes one patient at a time, so can be more present for her clients than hospice workers. Whether she’s only holding their hand or hearing their regrets about life, she is present to honor them in their last moments. Her only friend is actually her grandfather’s friend, Leo, who is very concerned that when he is gone, Clover will be alone. Between his friendship-matchmaking and a fiesty new client, can Clover shift her life focus outside of work from the dying to a new life of her own?
The Book Girls Say…
Melissa highly recommends this book for anyone who loves the heart of Fredrik Backman and characters like Eleanor Oliphant or Albert Entwistle, who have been loners for much of their life. While the concept of the book sounds like it’s heavy on death and grief is a big theme, the novel is very much about life. It’s a rare book that Melissa wanted to read again immediately, while also wanting to give it a hug. Some readers have reported not connecting with Clover, but Melissa adored her and was rooting for her on every page.
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The Phoenix Ballroom
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When Venetia is widowed after fifty years, she’s left with plenty of cash, a huge house, and plenty of qualms about her past. She’s ready to fully embrace her life again after feeling like she’s mentally missed the last five decades.
While some think it’s reckless, Venetia buys the delapitated Phoenix Ballroom, which also serves as a spiritalist “church”. She’s a witty and spunky character whose generosity, courage and kindness provide a refuge for a touching cast of damaged and lonely people.
As she develops relationships with many of the ballroom’s attendees, the Phoenix lives up to its name with fresh starts and a new found family being formed.
Joe Nuthin’s Guide to Life
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Joe’s mum has spent her whole life trying to prepare him for independence, knowing he’ll have to find a way to be okay when she is gone. As long as he has a routine or clear instructions, he can do anything. But when his routine breaks or new aspects are introduced, he has a hard time coping. So she writes everything down in an instructional notebook, it’s his own personalized guide for life.
Joe is in his early 20s now and ready for a job. If his mom can get him all set in his new routine, maybe he can spend a night alone at their home so she can get her first break in his lifetime. His new job at the Compass store brings both friendship and bullies, but the job isn’t the only big change in his life this year.
The Book Girls Say…
Melissa loves books that evoke all kinds of emotions, and this is her new favorite! She laughed, gasped, cried, and had a hard time putting it down.
It would have been great without the Friends references, but those pushed it past 5 stars for her as someone who appreciates the show almost as much as Joe does.
Well Behaved Wives
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Newlywed Ruth is a law school graduate and has an independent streak stronger than most young women in her posh neighborhood. However, she still wants to impress her mother-in-law, who has signed Ruth up for etiquette lessons with Lillian Diamond.
Fellow etiquette-classmate Carrie is quiet, but has a dark secret. As witty Ruth befriends Carrie, they form an unbreakable bond. Ruth pushes Lillian and all of her Diamond Girls to question the status quo and stretch beyond their comfort zones as they unite to protect one of their own.
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Melissa read Well-Behaved Wives and thought the book thrived in the last 25% when the women form a deeper bond after a surprising twist.
The People We Keep
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April has a rough life, fending for herself in a motorless motorhome that her father won while playing poker. She works at a diner but dreams of being a songwriter. After flunking out of school and another fight with her dad, April sets off to find a better life for herself.
Along the way, she meets others with complex stories, which are the perfect inspiration for her songs. But even more important than that, she finds that family doesn’t have to mean the community you were born into. Instead, people you meet can become family.
The Book Girls Say…
This is a beautifully written, character-driven, coming-of-age novel. April isn’t always likable, and she makes many bad decisions along the way. But she’s a raw and real character you’ll come to love despite her flaws. This book is packed with so much genuine emotion, honesty, and heart that you’ll want a copy on your shelf so that you can read it again!
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The Music of Bees
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Forty-four-year-old Alice is in the midst of deep grief. She’s unexpectedly lost her husband, her job is a dead-end, and even her beloved beekeeping hobby isn’t bringing her the usual joy. She has even begun to have anxiety attacks thinking about how far her life has strayed from her dreams.
As she’s transporting 120,000 bees in her truck, she nearly collides with Jake. He’s a troubled, paraplegic teenager with the tallest mohawk in Hood River County. When Alice sees Jake’s genuine interest in the bees and learns about his own difficulties at home, she impulsively invites him to see the farm.
The third member of the unlikely trio that makes up this novel is Harry. He’s twenty-four, and his social anxiety has prevented him from getting a traditional job. He answers Alice’s ad for part-time farm help and is shocked to be hired. Alice, Jake, and Harry become fast friends when they have to work together to stop a pesticide company that is threatening the bees. Through their new friendship, they each begin to heal.
The Book Girls Say…
While this book deals with grief and other tough topics, the overall book is uplifting and heartwarming.
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At the Coffee Shop of Curiosities
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Twenty-seven year old Ava is struggling one month after the death of her ex-boyfriend. Although she lives in Ohio, she receives a mysterious letter with an ad to become a caretaker for a cantankerous older man and his cat in the small town of Driftwood on the Alabama coast. Despite her normally fearful approach to life and her suspicion that her ex is now haunting her, Ava takes a risk and heads to the quaint beachside town.
In Driftwood, thirty-eight year old Maggie runs Magpie’s, a coffee and curiosity shop where magic is found when the old and new are paired. While she’s cheerful on the outside, she’s still mourning the loss of her mom and worried about her aging father. Newcomer Ava might be just what Maggie needs to learn to let go of the past.
Magical realism is sprinkled throughout the novel with unexplained predictions and events, and through the use of butterflies.
The Book Girls Say…
This book is told in first-person from both Ava’s and Maggie’s points of view. They’re both likable, as are the town’s other quirky characters. While the book covers hard topics, including mental health and grief, it avoids being a dark book and instead is a heart-warming tale of found family.
Another of the author’s books, Midnight at the Blackbird Cafe, has been highly rated by our readers and also contains a mix of magical realism and small-town charm.
Very Very Lucky
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Forty-something Emma realizes that her life might have gotten a bit too hectic and tiring when she wakes up after falling asleep in an IKEA showroom. Between trying to be a good mother to her kids, a good daughter to her ailing mother, and a good wife, she’s struggling to keep up. Thank goodness for her best friend, Roz, who keeps her sane. But when Roz climbs through her bathroom window one day with terrible news to share, Emma loses all confidence in her ability to keep it together.
Thurston’s once-full life is empty these days. He’s recently widowed, and without his wife of sixty-two years, he no longer finds joy or purpose in his life. When driving his niece to work one day, Thurston has a chance encounter with Emma and quickly gets drawn into the whirlwind of her chaotic life.
Thurston’s calming presence helps Emma put her problems in perspective, and soon, the two form an unlikely friendship.
The Book Girls Say…
While many found family novels involve characters that don’t have biological family members around them, this novel is a beautiful mixture of both related and chosen families.
This novel offers laugh-out-loud moments as well as heavier topics. Be aware that this book addresses issues such as grief, thoughts of suicide, and terminal illnesses.
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The Heirloom Garden
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After losing her husband in WWII and her daughter to illness, Iris walled herself off from the world. She’s spent many decades hiding behind the tall fence around her home. In place of human connection, Iris has surrounded herself with a family of flowers. Propagating her daylilies and roses and tending to a garden that helps her keep memories of those she loved alive.
In the early 2000s, Abby is a young mother whose husband has recently returned from military service in Iraq. When Abby’s family rents a cottage along Lake Michigan, next door to Iris’ property, the older woman can’t help but view the young family as a window to the life she once had.
As Iris and Abby are drawn together by their shared love of flowers, the friendship that blossoms between them is a testament to the healing power of both gardening and human connection.
The Book Girls Say…
This book is an interesting look at PTSD for soldiers returning from war, and its effect on the soldier’s family. The comparisons between the 1940s & 2000s add an additional discussion point.
Readers particularly enjoy the audio version of this heartwarming book because of the two different narrators who read for Iris and Abby. Keep the tissues nearby as you read because you’re sure to shed a few cathartic tears during the ultimately uplifting tale.
The Lonely Hearts Book Club
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Sloane is a small-town librarian in Idaho who enjoys her daily visits from the town curmudgeon, Arthur. She loves verbal sparing with him so much that she instantly notices when he doesn’t show up one morning. When another day passes without a visit, her worry intensifies.
When Sloane tracks Arthur down at home and finds him almost bedridden, she needs a way to cheer him up. An impromptu book club with other lonely library patrons soon begins and unlikely friendships form through their shared love of books.
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What could be better than a found family that develops through a shared love of books?
The Twilight Garden
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In London, between the houses of No. 77 and No. 79 on Eastbourne Road, there’s a neglected community space called the “Twilight Garden”. In the 1970s, it was a sanctuary for the neighbors who needed it most, but now the garden’s gate is locked closed.
But it only takes one person’s idea to inspire change. Can the Twilight Garden be resurrected, or will a new neighbor put a stop to the healing garden that the others hope to restore?
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This 2023 release is a slower, but beautifully written, slice-of-life read by the author of The Reading List. While the garden is the heart of the story, the diverse characters also encounter several societal issues including racism, xenophobia, and a character’s insecurity as a gay man of Indian descent.
This book follows two timelines and the families that live on either side of the Twilight Garden in both the 1970s-80s & 2019-2020.
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The Love Story of Missy Carmichael
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Missy is 79 years old and lives in a stately London home alone. Her husband, Leo, passed away after a challenging illness, and her favorite child, son Allistair, broke her heart by moving to Australia. Daughter Melanie lives much closer in Cambridge, but they have a contentious relationship.
As Missy walks alone through a park, her primary mission is to experience something worthy of including in her next email to Allistair. While she prefers keeping to herself, she forces herself to interact with some interesting characters she encounters on her walk. When she faints, her new acquaintances not only help her in the moment, they invite her to a nearby coffee shop.
But is 79 too old for new friends and a new outlook on life?
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While unexpected friendships are a common theme on this list, each one has something a little special. In this case, it includes a dog helping break down emotional barriers and flashbacks to Missy’s earlier years. Melissa found it to be a good reminder of how little we know about those we meet as adults, and especially how their personalities are impacted by things they survived in the past. But also that it’s never too late to see things in a new way.
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The Wishing Game
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Lucy is a 26-year-old teacher’s aide hoping to adopt her student, seven-year-old Christopher. He tragically lost his parents, but she needs to be in a better financial situation for both the actual adoption process to be approved and to take care of Christopher long-term.
She’s always found comfort in books, especially the Clock Island series by Jack Masterson. The author stopped writing and became reclusive years ago, but she still regularly re-reads his work. Just when Lucy is about to give up on adopting Christopher, Jack Masterson re-emerges and announces a new book. However, it’s not a standard release. Four contestants will get to come to the real Clock Island and compete for a chance to win the single copy in existence, which is worth at least six figures.
The Book Girls Say…
This adventurous story is full of heart with a side of magic!
Britt-Marie Was Here
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Britt-Marie is a socially awkward 63-year-old perfectionist who comes across as constantly critical of others despite her best intentions. But inside, she has big dreams and a warm heart.
After leaving her cheating husband, Britt-Marie begins a new season of life as the caretaker of a rec center and inherits a variety of odd regular visitors, including kids desperate for a football (soccer) coach. Can she get past her fussy nature and turn the town into a place where she finally feels she belongs?
The Book Girls Say…
Fredrik Backman has a rare talent for creating lovable, realistically human characters who learn and grow with the help of their community. Britt-Marie is no exception!
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The Sunshine Girls
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This dual-timeline novel opens in 2019 at the funeral for BettyKay in a small town in Iowa. BettyKay’s daughters are shocked when Hollywood movie star Kitty Devereaux walks in and places something into their mother’s casket. Over the course of the weekend, BettyKay’s daughters discover a whole other side to their mother as Kitty shares stories of their lifelong friendship, which all began in 1967 at a St. Luke’s Nursing School in the fictional town of Greensboro, Iowa.
BettyKay grew up on a farm in the Midwest and risked everything to attend nursing school against her parents’ wishes. Her assigned roommate, Kitty, came to Iowa to escape her past in Atlanta but already had her sights set on Hollywood. The two, having little in common, became unlikely friends. Another new student, Jenny, completed their trio. Jenny had aspirations of becoming a doctor, but she knew that the combination of being a woman and being Black meant that the odds were stacked against her in the late 60s.
The bond these three women formed at their Iowa nursing school would carry them through the years as their lives led them in different directions – from the jungles of Vietnam to the movie sets of Hollywood.
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Kristin Hannah’s The Women also features another example of the powerful found family bonds formed between nurses, but in a combat situation rather than in school.
Where the Forest Meets the Stars
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Joanna Teale has thrown herself into dawn-to-dusk work studying nesting birds in rural Illinois for her graduate program. It’s a great distraction from the loss of her mother and her own breast cancer battle.
Out of nowhere, a bruised girl named Ursa shows up. The girl claims to have been sent from the stars to witness five miracles but provides no other background information. Concerned about the bruises, Joanna lets the girl stay while enlisting the help of her reclusive neighbor to solve the mystery of where the girl came from.
Miracles occur over the summer, but as the end of summer and the fifth miracle approach, Ursa’s dangerous past also gets closer.
The Book Girls Say…
This heartwarming novel is perfect for fans of The Snow Child. At its core, it’s a story of friendship and found family.
If you enjoy the atmospheric style of this novel, you may also want to read the author’s 2021 novel, The Light Through the Leaves, which also blends nature, a touch of magic, and mystery.
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Lillian and Madison were boarding school roommates and friends from very different backgrounds. However, they’ve barely spoken since a scandal forced Lillian to leave school.
A decade later, Lillian’s life is not on the track she’d imagined for herself, so when she receives a call from Madison asking her to help care for Madison’s twin step-children who are moving in, Lillian figures she has nothing to lose.
But there is a catch: both kids spontaneously burst into flames when they are agitated. Madison needs to keep this fact somehow a secret while her husband runs for public office. Despite knowing nothing about raising kids, Lillian agrees to take on the role, and throughout one summer, she and the kids learn together how to keep their cool – literally. It may even prove to be the start of a whole new life for Lillian.
The Book Girls Say…
We were both very skeptical about the premise of this book, but it’s an excellent and worthwhile short read! While the concept of children who catch fire makes it sound like this book is HEAVY on magical realism, it’s actually the only unusual element and serves as a great metaphor throughout the novel.
Some of our readers for the Lifetime Challenge did not enjoy the adult language in the book, so if you never enjoy books with curse words, skip this one.
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The Brilliant Life of Eudora Honeysett
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Eudora has lived a long, full life, but at the age of 85 she’s decided she’s done with it all. She’s already witnessed the indignities and suffering of old age, and she wants the end – her end – to be on her own terms. She’s called a clinic in Switzerland to set her plan into motion. But then she meets 10-year-old Rose.
Rose is rainbows and sparkles and cheer. And as much as Eudora just wants to be left alone, she can’t help but be drawn into her young neighbor’s world of adventure. Along with her affable and recently widowed neighbor Stanley, they join Rose for afternoon teas, shopping sprees, trips to the beach, and birthday celebrations. As they all await the arrival of Rose’s new baby sister, Eudora is secretly waiting for approval to go ahead with her plan.
As this unlikely trio grows closer, the joy that her new friends bring to her life forces Eudora to reconsider whether she’s really ready to say goodbye.
The Book Girls Say…
This book quickly became one of Melissa’s all-time favorites after she read it for our Lifetime of Reading Challenge. The author did a beautiful job relaying what it’s like to be alone in your 80s with no family, but also the uplifting power of found family. While both Rose and Eudora pull at your heartstrings in different ways, the novel addresses the topic of medically-assisted suicide, so it could make for a fabulous book club discussion.
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All the Lonely People
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Widower Hubert Bird spends days at his English home, never seeing a single soul. However, his real life is much different than the stories he weaves on his phone calls with his daughter, Rose, who lives in Australia. He paints a picture of the ideal retirement life, full of friendship and fun.
But then he receives the big news that Rose is coming to visit. This leads to a seemingly impossible task – he must make his real life resemble his fake life before his daughter learns the truth. On his quest to find new friends, Hubert discovers that he’s not the only senior suffering in the loneliness epidemic.
The Book Girls Say…
Hubert Bird will steal your heart (and maybe break it a little, too) as he braves the world that he’s been hiding from for far too long.
In addition to the topic of loneliness in aging, this book addresses the challenges Hubert faced as a Jamaican who immigrated to England in 1958.
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What are Found Family Trope Books?
The “found family” trope is all about a group of people who aren’t related by blood but become like family through shared experiences. Instead of being born into a family, these characters choose each other and create strong, meaningful bonds.
You’ll often see this in stories where characters come from different backgrounds but end up finding a sense of belonging with one another. This literary trope shows that family isn’t just about being related by blood; it’s about who you care about and who you can count on.
In novels, found families offer a safe space, especially when a character’s biological family isn’t around or doesn’t offer the same level of emotional support. This theme appears across a wide range of genres, but in each instance, it highlights how love, trust, and loyalty can create a family. It’s a heartwarming reminder that sometimes, we get to choose the people we call family. And sometimes, they choose us.